I’ve been struggling with what to write on here lately. And a lot of that has been down to just being exhausted from all the interactions I’ve been having lately.

I arranged to go on a date the other day, he cancelled way last minute. The reason given was work when up to this point he said he chooses his hours and time commitment to work. So, okay. I do generally give one chance and so tried to rearrange and he said ‘how about next month?’ (at the start of the month) and I just can’t even.

I started talking with someone else. He immediately asked to meet me. I said ‘no’ so he started asking questions about me and my interests, I responded. Asked him questions but he didn’t volunteer much. I think that he thought ‘tick’ we’ve powered through the getting to know you bit so he asked to meet me again. I said I don’t meet anyone until I know enough about them that it won’t be awkward chatting for however long it takes to finish our coffee. This isn’t unreasonable. He was game so he sent a message with things about him. I said ‘that’s a lot of words and yet you still remain incredibly vague’ He then went on to say he didn’t know much about me either and I copy and pasted everything I’d already told him about me into a more recent message. He responded by asking me out again.

I met someone recently, had a wonderful time. Told him I’d like to see him again. But over the next three weeks he didn’t message me first, when I messaged him he’d say ‘funny, I was just about to message you’ he talked about his plans with other people and then told me that he ‘wasn’t sure’ if I’d changed my mind about seeing him again.

When does the bullshit stop? I’d really like to know.