At the risk of sounding like a broken record, I’ve just really, really been loving how amazing it’s been to interact with more women and having these hits of friendship and camaraderie.

I was at this party the other day, I’ve already written a little bit about it. But the best thing about it is that I spent the majority of my time there talking to a group of women. Just about life. We did talk briefly about pubic hair preferences for ourselves and partners, sure. But we also talked about our children, our dogs, life just generally.

Not since I was in school have I gone to the toilet with a group of women. And honestly, it was a pretty great thing to experience. If only for as I was walking out, one of the women pointed out that I had toilet paper stuck to my shoe and helped me get it off. It’s such a small thing but it just highlights to me how lacking my life has been. That I don’t have women friends to just hang out with.

That same night one of the women offered to invite me to the next girl’s trip to a sex club. And I’ve never been more excited about something. Because I’ve been to sex clubs with men. But I think it’ll be an entirely different experience to go with women. And I’m excited.

This is going to be my goal for 2026. Less focus on sex and sexual partners and more focus on including women and friendship with women in my life. Women friendship brings me so much joy.