I met someone recently.

We started messaging ages back. Maybe more than a month? It was fairly regular but not really in depth conversations. I felt like I got enough from him to think it might be nice to meet this person.

There was a misfire at one point where I thought I’d be able to meet him and then I needed to do a thing with my kid and it didn’t work out but he was fine about it and we rescheduled for a time in the next couple of weeks.

I hadn’t really given much thought about the actual day we met. But I’d been on a mini spa day and I arrived with oil in my hair from getting a facial and a massage and when I saw him and sat in a chair opposite I sort of melted into the chair. I felt so relaxed and boneless. It probably wasn’t a great time to meet someone but at least I wasn’t in my own head about stuff.

We stayed chatting in the sunshine for more than an hour and I wrote to a friends group chat afterwards that I’d just met a cute, kind man who made me laugh and everyone was suitably happy for me.

When I got home, we exchanged a few messages, he confirmed he had a great time too, that he’d like to see me again. I thought ‘fantastic!’ and thought things would be smooth sailing from there.

It wasn’t.

I’d sent him a message a couple days after we met and then he didn’t respond to it for a good 6 days despite messaging daily before we met up. I sent him a message pretty much saying sorry, I must have gotten my wires crossed about how well things went when we met up? I guess I would have expected more consistent communication than this and he apologised and said he ‘didn’t mean anything by it’

He did attempt to send more regular messages but I was still annoyed so only responded tersely.

THEN! Then I get a message from someone else on the website we both use. And the message reads something like this:

God, you’re hot. I see you’ve met my friend, he’s sat next to me right now. I would love to meet you as well, we are both sat here very horny with massive cum loads to drain

Let me tell you how disgusting I felt reading that message. That this man would talk about like this to his friend, that he’d be sat with some random man thinking this would be okay for anyone to send me.

I immediately deleted and blocked the friend of this man. And I sent the person I’d met a message to say I honestly can’t understand why he thought that message was appropriate but in the absence of doubt, do not message me ever again.

He wrote back to say his friend ‘didn’t mean anything by it’ and even though I wrote back to remind him in future to be respectful, decent and less of a creep I still felt horrible by the whole experience.

Mostly because I’d felt so hopeful after our coffee date. I was excited by him. Only to be slapped in the face with cum loads.