Has it felt kind of uneventful around these parts lately? Or is that just me thinking that?

I’m in kind of a slump. I’m not really meeting new people. And there have been zero plans made to have sex with people I already know and have a sexual relationship with. Not for lack of trying on either thing, I don’t think. But it turns out, if I’m not doing the dating then it leads to not doing the sex either. Sadly. For me.

Partly there’s the lack of availability with those I have connected with. Whether that’s a lack of wanting to get together I’m not sure – it’s best not to ask questions I don’t want answers to. Partly it’s that I haven’t been talking to new people to where we’ve gotten to the point of meeting. Part of that is that as I mentioned in a previous post I’m not hugely interested in a Just Sex situation. I want more than that. I deserve more than that.

I think I’m also in a phase right now (with those I have connected with) where I’m also really embracing a ‘meet you at your same effort’ mode. If you don’t ask me about the thing going on in my life right now I’m not going to delve too deep into the thing going on in yours. If you say your availability is nonexistent until next May? Then I’m not going to be the one pushing you for updates. If when I meet you and you say you’ll text me and then you don’t? I’m not going to be the one to text you first.

I think I’m just tired.